3 Weeks

Things were going well with the 6 ft tall blonde, until 2 weeks ago. 

Unfortunately, it turns out she didn’t like the overly cocky attitude I had adopted recently.  We had a fight and she was wrong.  She ended up apologizing, so I told her she should buy me dinner to make up.  She flipped out and told me we’re done.  I should have waited until December to cool off (wtf?) and so on.  Apparently, she doesn’t like overly cocky guys. She seemed pretty upset and serious about so I’d figure I’d try out the three week plan, where you just ignore them for three weeks.

She made it 4 days. 

Called.  No answer.  I don’t check my voicemail, so I don’t know if she left a message.

Text message a little later in the middle of the day.

LOL.

I really want to patch things up with her, because she’s an amazing girl except for the random bout of craziness. What should my next play be? Should I text her back or call her?  Just wait? 

Blue Pill

Everytime, I see my copies of the The Game and Bang, I think to myself, “Why, oh why didn’t I take the blue pill?”

Rules

Follow the rules and keep sight of your goals.

Of Mice and Men

So I was finally getting ahold of this whole find, meet, attract, close deal. Actually, fairly successful as well.

Of course, I killed a cow in my previous life and ate it.  So just as everything is looking up… I end up with a girl, I actually like.  6′0, blonde hair, blue eyes, graduated from college at 20.  WTF! Likes math, puzzles, and jaeger bombs.  She actually wanted to and is going to participate in the Microsoft puzzle hunt with me.  WTF! Seriously, there must be something wrong with this girl…

No one warned me about how it would be to make out when you’re sober.

So how do I achieve an emotional disconnect now?  My skills are not yet refined enough to keep this girl  for any period of time.  Thus, no matter what I do this is a lose-lose situation.  The only good thing that can come of this is I get laid again.

Routines, contact closing, escalation, and K-town

Tonight was a good night.  It was definitely worth the 60+ dollars I burned.

So far in bars, I’ve had a 100% success rate. I only do two, maybe three approaches, when I go out. Maybe, it’s just the Seattle area, but I’m having issues with girls escalating on me too fast. My social intelligence has also gone up 1000%, since I read The Game and Bang. I’ve even developed two original routines (age specific unfortunately) that seem to work pretty well.  I will share one. If any of you remember your elementary school days, there was this amazing game called Oregon Trail.  For some reason, girls respond very positively to this game.  I don’t know what it is about Oregon Trail, but I’ve yet to meet anyone that has negative memories of it.  Luckily, in Washington State talking about Walla Walla leads in perfectly (you can choose to go through Walla Walla instead of going down the Columbia river I believe). 

Tonight, I only opened two sets. It was a two set of one really hot tall girl and one really hot short girl.  I’d say the short girl was an 8 and the tall girl was a 10.  Tall girls are the only girls that can reach 10 in my book, because I have a strong bias towards girls 5′ 10″ or taller.  I chatted them up. I wasn’t getting much from them, because (a) the music was too loud and (b) they sat down during the conversation.  I used my parking lot line and somehow they opened up.  I don’t remember all the details, but I managed to get her number shortly thereafter.  I remember talking about snowboarding, Miami, skydiving, and dancing.  She said she had to go look for her friend (who had gone to the bathroom and had been there forever).  

At this point I moved onto another set. I was looking for a challenge, so I went for a 6 set with 2 girls and 4 guys.  I opened up one of the guys, by just going with a “hi, my name is ___. I’m new to the area.”  Perfect excuse to randomnly talk to people   Anyway, I used the standard “so how do you all know each other?” One of the girls was their with a boyfriend and the other girl was with her friend.  I ignored the girls for a bit and really took control of the conversation with the guys.  Eventually, the girlfriend started interrogating me, “where are you from?”, “why’d you move here?”, etc. I focused pretty much all my attention on her, until I delivered my Rugby routine, directed at all the guys.  The guy who was “friends” with the other girl was being completely silent and avoiding eye-contact with everybody.  He was exuding a lack of self-confidence so strongly it wasn’t even funny.  I used the “is he always like that neg” on him.  I don’t know why, but at the time I thought it was a good idea.  Of course he reacted by qualifying himself about being tired and it being late (it was only midnight).  The girl jumped in don’t worry about him, he’s not very social.  Then she started chatting me about something, which I can’t even recall.  Eventually I got her phone number.  Shortly, after that the short girl from the original two set comes by and recognizes me and starts talking to m.  About 30 seconds later, her friend comes over.  I’m really not interested in the short girl even though she’s pretty, so I introduce her to the guy who I used to open the second set.  I don’t if he realizes him I’m using him as a wing, but he doesn an excellent job keeping the girl’s attention. While I work on her friend, who escalates into some serious kino rather quickly.  I was actually completely caught off guard, by this sudden change. I think she may have seen me talking to other attractive girls, which raised my value in her head. 

I’m tired of typign out this story so I’ll just skip to the end.  She invited me to go skydiving with her and she agreed to come to my friend’s birthday party the next day.  I also had to deal with some random guy from Spain. He asked for permission to call her the next day. Shortly, thereafter she whispered in my ear “help me.” 

All in all, I’m starting to enjoy going out a little bit too much.  

Also, I got to explore some venues in downtown K-town.  Timed Out turned to out to be the bar where all the skanky and fat girls go to get hit on by a predominantly ethnic and jock crowd.  Central Club is where people go to get drunk for cheap. It’s a good place for a venue change, because it’s much less packed and has a more relaxed atmosphere and pool tables. Joe’s Tiki wetbar is where all the hot girls go.  There’s also an incredible amount of tall people in Kirkland.  I’m 6′ 2″ and I would say I was only in the 60th percentile.  It was strange.

Tall girl has high relationship potential.  I just have to make sure I don’t foo-bar it.  Must sleep now.

Transformation

I foolishly fell for a girl named Lindsey, against my better judgement.  It was a calculated gamble, that blew up in my face teaching me a valuable lesson. 

I was forged into a new man, by my experience:

 

I am now out to Seattle, where I will train in mixed martial arts,  and achieving the level of seduction guru.

I will train and then return to the East, where I will become king by my own hand!

What is best in life?  Conan knows! 

Credit, Bang, and The Game

I must give credit where it’s due and say that there is a lot of valuable information in those books that’s helped me on my dates. All the crap about openers, NLP, routines, and all sorts of other gimmicks is pretty much trash when dealing with the kind women, I’m looking for. The sections in both books on body language, confidence, and inner game are invaluable. Probably the most important line for me from the game was “in order to get a girl, you must be willing to lose her.” You cannot be worried about what the girl thinks of you and you have to be willing to walk away knowing you can find another girl just as good or better. That is an issue of power & confidence and shows through in your entire attitude and posture.

That is one thing, I have to agree with the authors of The Game and Bang. As a guy you must maintain the balance of power in your favor, while dating. If a girl picks up on neediness, desperation, or you caring more about her than yourself then you are putting yourself at her mercy. You will either lose their respect or they will squeeze you for every last bit. It basically comes down on whether you trust the girl to use that sort of power correctly and not abuse it. If you do perhaps you should be considering progressing the relationship further

Feminism & Dating

Irina’s post got me thinking.

Since I started looking about two to three weeks ago, I have had no trouble finding and having repeat dates.  With minimal effort, I have dated 2 9s, a 7, and a 6, in approximately two weeks. Their fields respectively were intelligence analyst, P&O resident, successful lawyer at a major DC law firm (age: 25), and software engineer. The 7 would have been a 8 or 9 if she lost like 10 or 15 lbs.

I’m starting to wonder if perhaps books like The Game, BANG, and feminism have had a significant and unexpected dating market effect.

These women that I met are absolutely tired of going to bars and clubs and have even resorted to various other methods.  One even told me a story about using Craigslist, but then discovery the guys that she dated that had built themselves up online couldn’t even maintain a conversation (this was one of the 9s).  The fact that I came across as confident, educated, and ambitious really bothers me.  Not because, I am not those things (I’m faking a lot of the confidence ), but because of the look in their eyes as most said it.  They looked starved and ecstatic to be talking to someone and I had 100% of their attention at all times.  I just drop the N-bomb (Nietzsche) and they start getting all excited and their eyes widen and it feels like they’re trying to bore into my head.

What I took away from my two week dating experience was that after college it seems girls really do have a tough time finding guys that they want to date. I mean one of them did want a musician, scientist, athlete, and businessman all rolled into one, so very high standards.  However, she didn’t want anything less than an equal (feminism), because she was a concert pianist and a former Division 1 hockey player who was still in great shape.  She owned her house and had a great career.

Game doesn’t work on women like that, unless they want it to work.  Thus, I come to my hypothesis.

As the knowledge of seduction becomes more widespread, it has created a significant shortage of quality males for these women.

This is a result of the combination of feminism and The Game.  Feminism really empowered women to become these amazing human beings.  Most feminists naturally have strong inclinations against most stereotypical alpha male behavior. They’re the ones that Bang and The Game tell you to skip over when running game, because they won’t give you what you need (sex).  So as more men adopt Bang and The Game viewpoints, competition has actually increased for Las Vegas blondes, while the attractive lawyer from Columbia Law School has difficulty even finding a guy.

I hear Neil Strauss is writing a version of The Game for women.  Perhaps, he aims to fix in this inequity in the market

Date

The best cure to girl problems is to meet other girls, even if you don’t end up seeing them again. It’s a good way to get an idea of what’s out there.

That being said, I had a date last night and it went quite well.

There’s only one other girl that, I really find on the same level as this girl. She’s in NC doing her P & O residency.
Even then the only reason they’re on par is because the girl I met last night was 5′ 2″ and the girl in NC is 5′ 7″.

I actually have a preference for tall girls, but it’s not on my list of deal breakers.

1) Attractiveness
2) Loyalty
3) Honesty

Also after being in Las Vegas recently and a recent argument on high heels, I have decided that heels can be good for certain girls. I find that heels seem to work best on all girls if they’re standing with an open stance such that there legs are in an upside down ‘V’ shape. Think Rebecca Romjin-Stamos in lingerie during femme fatale, after the bar incident. Most women wearing heels actually ended up looking more unattractive to me. Maybe it’s just my preference for certain types of legs (I can’t even describe it). Most just looked wrong.

However, the girl last night was wearing 3-4+ inch heels and looked completely natural in them. I didn’t even notice she was wearing heels, until she mentioned she was 5′ 2″ (
She also happened to be a concert pianist, a former division I hockey player (full scholarship) in college, very fit, extremely intelligent, already accepted to law school, confident, and a good conversationalist, and Jewish.

I even got to make a demonstration of value when I caught her phone in midair when she dropped it.

I’ve already got a second date and a compliment, even though it was sort of a neg

“How are you still single?”

“I haven’t really been looking. I have plenty of time and I’m not in a hurry. There were other priorities”

The negatives? I haven’t played my Viola in months. I better start practicing Telemann’s concertos again. She mentioned she wants me to play something for her, in exchange for a Beethoven’s presto agitato movement.

She’s extremely type A, but that just means I have to work harder, which is probably a good thing.

Europe

After talking to several European females over the past couple of weeks, I’ve determined they know how American females behave.  The best part about is that they don’t embrace it and don’t like it.

I met a 50 year old guy, divorced his wife when he was 50 and married a 40 something European female and now claims to be the happiest person in the world (also has 3 healthy children). 

I’m starting to think I might have to take a month or so to go window shopping in Northern Europe.