Having read The Game and read in between the lines the following conversation, between a college friend of mine and I, greatly amuses me.
(9:42:05 PM) DW: what ya up to?
(9:53:50 PM) Me: nm
(9:54:03 PM) DW: ive been talking to a girl on aim for 4hrs
(9:54:16 PM) Me: About what?
(9:54:33 PM) DW: i used Mysery’s false repore multi-threading technique
(9:54:39 PM) DW: and then it fell away about an hour ago
(9:54:46 PM) DW: and we just got into the convo
(9:55:27 PM) DW: well girls like a lot of mystical stuff I think. You notice that? So I talk about my yoga practice
(10:00:47 PM) Me: That’s actually a good idea
(10:03:47 PM) DW: ??
(10:04:04 PM) DW: i thnk i no this, but tell me more
(10:04:52 PM) DW: ive been using multi-threading DHV with story injection coupled with intrigue mechanisms
(10:22:40 PM) Me: and uh
(10:22:44 PM) Me: Yeah,
(10:22:46 PM) DW: ??
(10:22:53 PM) DW: what did yousay?
(10:23:10 PM) DW: or what did i say
(10:26:21 PM) Me: gimme a second
(10:26:34 PM) DW: well i just virtually tucked her into bed, so i think it went well
(10:26:57 PM) DW: she just told me she was falling asleep listening to music and i wished her sweet dreams and she wished back
(10:27:20 PM) DW: but shes not my oneitis, so its nice but it doesnt have a deep satisfaction to me
(10:39:11 PM) Me: Now wouldn’t it be funny, if she would have liked you anyway?
(10:39:37 PM) DW: ???
He’s bordering on becoming a social robot. He’s starting to get the hang of confidence, but it still needs work.
The “aha!” moment for me came, when I realized I don’t give a shit and I just started doing whatever I wanted and understood to be right.
I love how scientific the words sound. No wonder computer programmers and geeky types just gobble it. Rather than talking about their multi-threaded routines they wrote to run on their quad-core rigs, they get to talk about the multi-threaded routines they wrote to run on women.
Why cannot I achieve the detachment necessary to really level up my “game”? After much self-analysis I reached the concluision that it was a side-effect of taking Minds and Machines and watching the Matrix movies. Are you like the guy that betrayed the humans to the agents? I wonder how the “higher value” girls, would react if you described the routines and the effects they were supposed to have? Would they still be content to play along with the program? At what point does it cross the line between giving them a good time and into manipulation?
How many of those girls would take the blue pill?
The hard part? Asking enough girls that question, to get a good idea, without alienating every single female friend I have.
Things were going well with the 6 ft tall blonde, until 2 weeks ago.
Unfortunately, it turns out she didn’t like the overly cocky attitude I had adopted recently. We had a fight and she was wrong. She ended up apologizing, so I told her she should buy me dinner to make up. She flipped out and told me we’re done. I should have waited until December to cool off (wtf?) and so on. Apparently, she doesn’t like overly cocky guys. She seemed pretty upset and serious about so I’d figure I’d try out the three week plan, where you just ignore them for three weeks.
She made it 4 days.
Called. No answer. I don’t check my voicemail, so I don’t know if she left a message.
Text message a little later in the middle of the day.
LOL.
I really want to patch things up with her, because she’s an amazing girl except for the random bout of craziness. What should my next play be? Should I text her back or call her? Just wait?
(12:05:01 AM) DarkTemplarSSJ: i tried me own opener tonight anditburned
(12:05:03 AM) Me: Tell me how would you open a girl
(12:05:12 AM) DarkTemplarSSJ: i wante dto move away from standard material
(12:05:17 AM) DarkTemplarSSJ: thats listed in the book and show
(12:05:22 AM) DarkTemplarSSJ: in the show they use
(12:05:31 AM) DarkTemplarSSJ: ‘what do you think of tattoos’
(12:05:32 AM) DarkTemplarSSJ: ect..
(12:05:37 AM) DarkTemplarSSJ: i used
(12:05:44 AM) DarkTemplarSSJ: ‘what do you think of piercings’
(12:05:49 AM) DarkTemplarSSJ: but i didnt follow with a story
(12:05:56 AM) Me: lol
(12:05:56 AM) DarkTemplarSSJ: which ffucked me up
(12:06:08 AM) Me: You messed up at what do you think of piercings
(12:06:09 AM) DarkTemplarSSJ: and 4 people laughed atme
(12:06:13 AM) Me: and that’s a terrible opener, especially without a followup
(12:06:18 AM) Me: I’m not surpriseed
(12:06:29 AM) DarkTemplarSSJ: you think they knew?
(12:06:37 AM) DarkTemplarSSJ: that i was using organized methods?
(12:06:42 AM) Me: no
(12:06:46 AM) Me: They laughed at you
(12:06:54 AM) Me: because you asked a random question, with no explanation
(12:07:09 AM) Me: some random white dude with no piercings walks up to them
(12:07:11 AM) Me: and goes
(12:07:16 AM) Me: “What do you think of piercings?”
(12:07:22 AM) Me: Without any explanation, what so ever? It’s like the most absurd/awkward thing in the world
(12:07:29 AM) Me: They probably laughed at the awkwardness/your awkwardness and then you gave up when they laughed
(12:07:30 AM) DarkTemplarSS: oh really
(12:07:34 AM) Me: You should have said
(12:07:35 AM) DarkTemplarSS: i left the bar after that
(12:07:45 AM) DarkTemplarSS: so you are really into this arent you
(12:07:47 AM) Me: “No seriously, my friends have all been telling me to get piercings for bling”
(12:07:52 AM) DarkTemplar: we should talkon the phone sometime
(12:07:55 AM) DarkTemplar: itsalot after
(12:07:56 AM) Me: “and so I decided to seek outside unbiased opinion”
(12:08:07 AM) Me: “So what do you guys think, honestly? Earring, maybe a nose-ring?”
(12:08:07 AM) DarkTemplarSSJ: good followup
I can now react to social situations quickly and the force is with me, but I am not a Jedi yet.
So I was finally getting ahold of this whole find, meet, attract, close deal. Actually, fairly successful as well.
Of course, I killed a cow in my previous life and ate it. So just as everything is looking up… I end up with a girl, I actually like. 6′0, blonde hair, blue eyes, graduated from college at 20. WTF! Likes math, puzzles, and jaeger bombs. She actually wanted to and is going to participate in the Microsoft puzzle hunt with me. WTF! Seriously, there must be something wrong with this girl…
No one warned me about how it would be to make out when you’re sober.
So how do I achieve an emotional disconnect now? My skills are not yet refined enough to keep this girl for any period of time. Thus, no matter what I do this is a lose-lose situation. The only good thing that can come of this is I get laid again.
